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"Am I too old to find love?"

Recently, I met a kind hearted woman who has just come out to her family after 40 years of marriage with a man. She surprised all of her family members and her grown up children too. She was concer...

Understanding the Sunken and Sinking Cost Fallacy: Advice for Lesbians in Unfulfilling Heterosexual Relationships

Sunken Cost Fallacy Most people have heard of the sunken cost fallacy. This psychological phenomenon occurs when individuals continue to invest in a decision based on the cumulative prior investmen...

Embracing the Experience of Queer Single Mixer Events

Join our Queer Singles Women Mixer event in Glasgow! Discover tips to overcome anxiety and enjoy meaningful connections. Book your spot today!

Someone, I tell you, in another time will remember us

I recently played and finished the Assassins creed: Odyssey video game and within it there was a mission about a lesbian woman who has asked Kassandra to help her find her lesbian lover who was tak...

Healing From a Heartbreak with Feelings Wheel

Dear reader,  If you’re reading this, chances are you were brought here because you most likely had your heart broken or you’re feeling frustrated from the strings of dates with an endless amount ...

Navigating Gay Panic

Imagine this, you're minding your own business, chilling out and suddenly someone really attractive speaks to you about the weather. Normally, you would be able to answer with a normal response, ve...

Navigating the Queer Dating Scene as a Late Bloomer Lesbian: To Disclose or Not to Disclose?

Entering the queer dating world can feel like stepping into uncharted territory, especially for those of us who've embraced our lesbian identity later in life. As a late bloomer lesbian (LBL), the ...

Navigating the Waters of Admiration: The Teacher-Crush Phenomenon

At various points in our journey, many of us encounter a deep admiration for individuals who embody qualities we aspire to or find profoundly attractive. This feeling can be especially potent in ac...

Rediscovering Social Connections: Venturing Out After 30

Crossing the threshold into your thirties can feel like stepping into a new realm of social dynamics. The spontaneous meet-ups and effortless friendships of your twenties might start to feel like r...

Navigating the Challenges of Boundaries in a Limited Dating Pool

The quest for love and companionship is a journey that many of us embark on with hope and excitement. Yet, for those in niche dating pools, this journey can sometimes feel like navigating a maze wi...